Take the Shot

You’re ready. Take the shot.

Stop hesitating. Stop waiting. You’re ready. Take the shot.

You keep making excuses. Giving yourself reasons to not to. Reasons to delay. You’re ready. Take the shot.

You think it’s your best shot, your only shot, so you don’t want to waste it. You’re afraid that if you miss you have nothing left. You’re afraid. That’s okay. You’re ready. Take the shot.

It doesn’t matter if you miss, you can take another shot. The sooner you shoot the more shots you can take. The longer you hesitate the less likely you are to ever take the shot. You’re ready. Take the shot.

Take the damn shot.

Shared Circles

There are distinctions between each of us. Some distinctions we share with others. We take people with shared distinctions and draw a circle around them, marking them as a group. Circles can be based on almost anything. Geography, gender, race, religion, politics, profession, and hobbies are just some categories of circles we draw around people. As individuals we sit in many circles.

Today is St. Patrick’s Day when being Irish is celebrated around the world. A circle drawn based on nationality.

Where some circles are celebrated others are condemned. There is currently a flood of refugees and migrants into Europe. People from other parts of the world seeking a better life. Yet, circles have been drawn around them – refugees, migrants – and the circles have been condemned.

It is not easy to look from the circle we sit within and understand the people in a circle we do not share. Yes, there are distinctions between us but those distinctions need not cause fear. A distinction may be based on arbitrary circumstance yet beside that circumstance we have much in common. We sit in many circles. It is inevitable that when we sit in many circles some will be shared with those sit in the circles we fear.

Look for the circles we share not for the lines that separate us.

Not to the Exclusion of All Else

Our lives do not take us down a single path. They take us down many paths at the same time.

The path of work is but one of them. As with all the other paths of our lives, the path of work itself can be a single path or one of many. That report you must write. That speech you must prepare for. Those emails you must reply to. You must keep moving on all paths at the same time.

If you focus too much on one path you fall behind on the others. Focusing on one path for too long causes you difficulty on the others. If all you did was prepare for that speech, that report would never get written, those emails would never get answered. If we focus too much on work then the other paths in our lives don’t get enough attention. They become darker and harder to travel. Work is but one path.

Focus is good but not to the exclusion of all else.

Commit to the Cycle

Our world is made up of cycles.

We breathe in oxygen, we breathe out carbon dioxide. We pump blood from our hearts to the far reaches of our bodies, and back again. The sun rises in the morning and sets in the evening. The Earth spins on its axis. The Earth travels around the sun.

All these cycles repeat.

Then there are other cycles. Cycles of improvement.

Want to improve your health? Exercising once won’t do. You have to repeat the cycle. Exercise every day.

Want to become a better writer? Write every day.

To improve your French, to improve your cooking, to improve your public speaking skills, to improve anything…

Find the cycle. Repeat it. Commit to it.

“I have traveled far, and I have observed that poor people usually have more wit and more virtue than rich ones.” He smiled at that. “You are kind. But our people have so much wit and virtue now that they may die. We have never possessed great numbers, and many perished in the winter just past, when much water froze.”

– from Sword & Citadel: The Second Half of ‘The Book of the New Sun’ by Gene Wolfe